Tired from your crazy 4th of July party? Then relax with this packed night of TV. Alanis Morrisette guests on Weeds as Nancy's OBGYN, gay law clerk Charlie has a possible dinner date on Raising the Bar, and Golden Girls star Betty White stops by to visit Kathy and Maggie Griffin.  Monday, July 6 8:00 pm The Secret Life of the American Teenager, ABC Family (1hr) NEW Still reeling from her father’s death in a plane crash, Grace begins to withdraw from everybody. Ricky tries to help her out of her slump, but let’s hope Ashley’s new gay friend Griffin shows up soon to make life better for everyone. 9:00 pm The Closer, TNT (1 hr) NEW Brenda gets tangled up in gang territory that may cause more then just her usual jurisdiction issues. Sounds like she could use a hand from tough lesbian detective Mikki Mendoza. 10:00 pm Gimme Sugar: Miami, Logo (30min) NEW Hilary and Maisi try to bring their friends back together after the camping fiasco; can they do it or is the group forever torn? 10:00 pm Weeds, Showtime (30min) NEW Just an average day for the Botwin family as Nancy’s discusses abortion with her new OBGYN (guest star Alanis Morrisette), and Shane acquires some “help” to retrieve his stolen stash from his teacher. Gay cop Roy Till was killed last week, but at least Isabelle and Sanjay are still breathing…wherever they are. 10:00 pm Kathy Griffin: My Life on the D-List, Bravo (1 hr) NEW Golden Girls fans rejoice! Our beloved icon, Betty White, pops up tonight as Kathy introduces her adorable mom, Maggie, to celebs from her own generation. Is a date with guest Don Rickles also in the cards? 10:00 pm Raising the Bar, TNT (1 hr) NEW Gay law clerk Charlie has an interesting dinner with Judge Farnsworth. Elsewhere Jerry fights for a woman charged with drug possession, causing a rift with Michelle’s new cop boyfriend. 10:30 pm Nurse Jackie, Showtime (30min) NEW True to form, Jackie throws hospital policy out the window to better help a suffering patient. Will newbie Zoey get the credit? Plus an issue with a stun gun may leave Mrs. Akalitus less then happy. She better not take it out on gay nurses Momo and Thor!