#TDOR COMMENTARY: Our lives are valuable

Transgender Day of Remembrance is not the day for celebratory slide shows of famous transgender performers, professionals, writers or intellectuals. This day is about the 238 transgender people, mostly women of color, who were brutally murdered this year. Many of whom died in the most horrific fashion, discarded like trash and some never identified.  This is about the deep trenches of transphobia, homophobia and misogyny that informs people's misguided assumptions about transwomen; creates an idea that transwomen are less than human, undeserving of love and respect. These women are not men in women's clothing trying to deceive or entrap others. They aren't perverts or the butt of the joke. They are mothers and daughters and sisters and friends.

In the LGBT community, transgender people are outnumbered by gays and lesbians six to one yet they accounted for 54% of anti-LGBT homicides in 2012 (73% of all anti-LGBT homicides victims were people of color). Transwomen are also 11 times more likely to be murdered than a non-transwoman. These staggering statistics are the result of shaming and ostracizing. So many transgender women are forced to leave the safety of their homes and community because of their gender identity. For instance, Eyricka Morgan, a 26- year old African-American transgender woman from New Jersey, left her home as a teenager and was living in a men's boarding house when she was killed by another resident. Islan Nettles, also estranged from her family, was a client at Ali Forney a homeless LGBT youth center when she was brutally killed on the streets of Harlem.

Countless young black transwomen migrate from the south where they were rejected by their families and friends fueled by fervent religiosity. I've known girls who had to leave their comfortable middle class families to begin a life of survival on the streets of New York, jumping from one social service organization to the next trying to secure a decent meal and housing. Often times these girls have to rely on sex work as their only source of income because the retail stores and restaurants, places were most young 20-somethings can easily find work, won't hire them. And doesn't all the rejection takes its toll? It would break anyone's spirit to be constantly repudiated, mocked and punished for merely living as your authentic self.

These young women are being killed at an alarming rate because too often they are fetishized and treated as the sum of their parts and not a whole person. They are viewed as a performance piece to marvel at or a sexual taboo to be kept secret. They sit at the intersection of racism, misogyny, transphobia and homophobia.  A virulent mix of toxic ideologies that coalesces into ugly merciless violence.

Violence in the Black community has been well documented, debated and analyzed by everyone from grassroots community leaders to mainstream news pundits. But, the intense and constant violence against Black transwomen is wholly ignored by leaders in the Black community. Nettles was killed not too far away from Al Sharpton's National Action Network, an organization that prides itself on its non-violence platform. But we didn’t hear a peep from him or his organization. Black transgender people should not have to fend for themselves on the margins of their own community. We have a right to a seat at the table. We have to take care of each other. The issues that face Black trans people is a magnified reflection of the concerns of the Black community as a whole and we are suffering from the collective cold shoulder.

It is not solely the responsibility of LGBT people to put in the work to end this heart-breaking violence. All of us who are considered leaders in the social justice movement have an obligation to affect change for the most vulnerable, misunderstood, and marginalized community in this country no matter your gender identity or sexuality. The lives of Black and Latino transgender women have value. It's time that everyone starts acting like it. 

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As a Major League Baseball umpire for the past 29 seasons, Dale Scott has worked three World Series, three All-Star Games, two no-hitters and numerous playoff games. He is also the first out active male official in the MLB, NBA, NHL, or NFL, and the first Major League Baseball umpire to publicly say he is gay while active.