Well, it's official: Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson are definitely a couple. After months of speculation, Lindsay told Loveline co-host Ted Stryker Monday night that she and Sam have been in a relationship for "a very long time." The actress and DJ have been spotted out and about and been photographed together on numerous occasions, but have never publicly commented about the extent of their relationship. Of course, the coming out process is a personal, private decision that needs to be made by the individual, so it makes sense the two would take their time in discussing any personal details with media. Lesbian/bi pop culture site AfterEllen.com published a timely and well-written story last week entitled "Visibility Matters: Lindsay Lohan and the New Definition of 'Out'". It is a highly-recommended read.